Fused

One thing that seems to kill love or relationships is when someone seems needy. It looks like this can be captured by the term psychologists use, and that is “fused” or the extreme desire or need for another so that we might understand who we are. This situation occurs when we have a weak sense of self. To formulate healthy and loving relationships, it is essential to beware of this sort of behavior. Otherwise, we might lead our lives entirely in the service of others without thinking about or for ourselves. This strategy is stifling to both parties in the relationship and does not yield a genuinely loving or sustainable bond.