Communicating the Violation
If we know ourselves, others, and the issues arise without taking measures to reduce the offenses, then things will continue. It is when we believe in ourselves enough that we can stand up and push back on others who don’t respect our boundaries. If our friends and family take from us until there is nothing left, we can communicate that we care, and are willing to give but not all of ourselves. If someone exposes something we’d rather keep a secret, we can kindly take them aside and let them know that they’ve done wrong. It makes sense that in many cases, people don’t realize the evil action that they’ve just committed.