Accommodation

It’s interesting in society to note that very accommodating people seem to labeled as nice. The issue is that when we accommodate too much, or maximally, we can lose ourselves and take on unnecessary stress within the family unit. It took me years to see this, but I can remember my father doing this almost always. He would say, “it’s up to you,” but then when we did not choose correctly, he would be upset. When someone is accommodating like this within a family, they “literally “absorb” system anxiety and thus [are] the family member most vulnerable to problems such as depression, alcoholism, affairs, or physical illness.”