What can we do now?
Once we have taken an inventory of who we are and where we are currently in our life, we can look ahead to where we would like to go. We can invite ourselves to contemplate, who it is that we would like to show up in the world as. This assertion is not to say that we can be anyone. We all have a general disposition (think Golden Retriever versus a Doberman Pinscher). If we take into account who we are and what we might excel at, we can aim for that goal. We can start now doing things that will propel us toward that result. We must take care not to become a self-tyrant. We can make a tradeoff that drives us through a tough task with a reward at the end (think an hour of reading for an hour of videogames).